How to Gently Deflower a Girl

Written by Thatyorubadude

First times can be difficult, but that shouldn’t stop you from  Having Sex if the time is Right!!
There’s always a first time for everything. And if you’re a guy, you may be one of those “lucky” few who chanced upon someone who will make you their first time. Exciting? Maybe. Big responsibility? Definitely.


devirginizing or deflowering a virgin, can be a very delicate situation for you and her. You’ll have her emotions to consider, as she may feel a special connection with you for choosing you as her first. There’s also the attachment that might follow. After all, you’re her first time, and that’s something she might remember for the rest of her life.

And this brings us to the next point. Since you’re her first time, popping her cherry is so much different from a roll in the hay with someone experienced. There’s going to be pain *and possibly a little blood* involved, as you are going to break that piece of membrane near the opening of her vagina, called the hymen

before you get at it with your girl, consider these tips so that you can gently pop her cherry and welcome her into the beautiful, sensational, and pleasurable world of sex.


#1 No pressure. Losing her virginity can be a big step for her. As for you, being the guy to accomplish the mission, it can be a lot to deal with, too. Therefore, don’t put any pressure on her or yourself. Talk about it and mentally prepare yourselves for the moment. If planning THE day will give you any reassurance, do so. The important this is that you’re both comfortable with the idea and relaxed enough *when the time comes* to have a successful, memorable experience


#2 Is she really ready? Make sure it’s not a spur-of-the-moment decision, or that she’s not just carried away in the moment. If there’s one thing you don’t want her to feel after you pop her cherry, it’s regret, especially if you are in a serious relationship with each other. Also, make sure that she’s not doing it just because you want to. Set things straight and make sure she wants it because she wants it, and she’ll take her own share of accountability in the process


#3 Put her comfort and emotions first. As a virgin about to tread unfamiliar waters concerning her sexuality, she may feel all sorts of mixed feelings. She may be scared, excited, hesitant, happy, prepared, and so many other things. Allow her to sort out her emotions until she’s truly comfortable. Once you come to the moment, you still have to prioritize her comfort and emotions, as this is, again, a big step for her



#4 Consider the time and place. Unless she asks you to take the wheel, let her choose the time and place for where and when she wants to do it. This will make her feel in control and therefore more comfortable. After all, she’s already in knots anticipating the moment, so deciding on a place and time that is comfortable for her might make her feel better. Just remember to keep the place very private and far from distractions. Also consider the time and make sure you are in no hurry to have that first intercourse, as this may probably *and ideally* take up quite some time

I drop ma pen at this Juncture.
Written by Thatyorubadude

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